自閉症女孩的（祕密）社交規則書 - 珍妮佛·庫克·奧圖

Finally, a book that actually explains why certain social rules exist instead of just saying "you should know this" – the author's personal perspective makes it feel like advice from a friend. My daughter immediately recognized herself in the examples and has been using the strategies at school.

My 12-year-old actually asked to keep reading past his bedtime, which never happens with anything labeled "social rules." The short chapters written as secret tips made the whole thing feel less like homework and more like a handbook he could flip through on his own.

I've read a lot of social skills books that talk down to kids, but this one feels like a secret handbook written by someone who's actually been there. The chapter on hidden rules for conversations finally explained things my son could never put into words himself.