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Unwritten Rules Of Social Relationships 2nd Edition (Paperback); by Dr. Temple Grandin and Sean Barron

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Born with autism, both authors now famously live successful social lives, but their paths were very different. Temple’s logical mind controlled her social behavior. She interacted with many adults and other children, experiencing varied social situations. Logic informed her decision to obey social rules and avoid unpleasant consequences. Sean’s emotions controlled his social behavior. Baffled by social rules, isolated and friendless, he made up his own, and applied them to others. When they inevitably broke his rules, he felt worthless and unloved. Both Temple and Sean ultimately came to terms with the social world and found their places in it. Whether you are a person with autism, a caregiver in the autism community, or just someone interested in an "outsider" view of society, their powerful stories will enthrall and enlighten you.

Customer Reviews (4.2 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Matthew X. ★★★★★

Temple Grandin’s logical breakdown of unwritten social codes finally made the invisible rules click for me—her autistic perspective explains the "why" behind interactions, not just a list of dos and don'ts. I’ve read dozens of social-skills books, and this one pairs her systematic approach with Sean

Jacob I. ★★★★★

This book is the first one that actually made sense to me—seeing how Temple used logic to navigate social rules while Sean relied on emotions was eye-opening. The contrasting paths really helped me understand my own struggles better.

Victoria ★★★★☆

Temple's sections read almost like an engineer's manual for social interaction, which finally made a lot of things click for me. I docked a star because the second half drags with repeated anecdotes, but the two-author format is worth pushing through for.