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The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules by Jennifer Cook O'Toole

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$15.58 $21.95 In stock

Being a teen or tween isn't easy for anyone but it can be especially tough for Asperkids. Jennifer Cook O'Toole knows; she was one! This book is a top secret guide to all of the hidden social rules in life that often seem strange and confusing to young people with Asperger syndrome. The (Secret) Rule Book for Asperkids offers witty and wise insights into baffling social codes such as making and keeping friends, blending in versus standing out from the crowd, and common conversation pitfalls. Chock full of illustrations, logical explanations, and comic strip practice sessions, this is the handbook that every adult Aspie wishes they'd had growing up. Ideal for all 10-17 year olds with Asperger syndrome, this book provides inside information on over thirty social rules in bite-sized chunks that older children will enjoy, understand, and most importantly use daily to navigate the mysterious world around them.

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Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 5 reviews)

Elizabeth B. ★★★★★

Finally, a book that actually explains why certain social rules exist instead of just saying "you should know this" – the author's personal perspective makes it feel like advice from a friend. My daughter immediately recognized herself in the examples and has been using the strategies at school.

Alexander J. ★★★★★

My 12-year-old actually asked to keep reading past his bedtime, which never happens with anything labeled "social rules." The short chapters written as secret tips made the whole thing feel less like homework and more like a handbook he could flip through on his own.

Eva ★★★★★

I've read a lot of social skills books that talk down to kids, but this one feels like a secret handbook written by someone who's actually been there. The chapter on hidden rules for conversations finally explained things my son could never put into words himself.